Sunday, December 30, 2012

Getting Down to Business... with Hope

So it's been an eventful, encouraging day.  But I'll get to that.

The last month has been quite busy.  Thanksgiving was good (both in spirit and delicious food), a bit of extra time with the husband was quite lovely, and the semester ended quickly.  We had our MSSA Christmas party the same day as my last (and only sit-down) final.  Luckily, I've maintained my grad school 4.0 this semester.  One more semester to graduate with a 4.0!  Hopefully I shall accomplish such.

Christmas was very nice.  We weren't able to travel anywhere to be with family due to busy restaurant patrons keeping Chris serving every day but Christmas Day that week.  It's really okay, though, as this was our first Christmas married.  We were able to combine our favorite family traditions and establish a few new ones.  We even Skyped with both sets of parents (with quite the eventful hour with my parents due to technical misunderstandings that led to us seeing a wall instead of my brother and then not able to hear him except the last 5 minutes since my dad's earphones were accidentally left plugged in).  We kept the gifts between us as few and useful.  Well, he got more items from me but most were things he needed anyway (like chapstick) that just got wrapped.

My favorite gift was a new iPhone cover.  He was very thoughtful about it and asked opinions from friends to make sure he got the best one.  I think he did.

My beautiful Van Gogh and Doctor Who cover.  
Just the right amount of pretentiousness and geek.

So in the midst of all the holiday craziness, we got some spectacular news.  Chris was accepted at the University of Aberdeen!  PhD, here we come!  So excited to live in Scotland for three years.

Chris and I with his acceptance letter.

So since Chris was unable to ask off work at the holidays, we are going with his family to Montana for a ski trip right before the semester starts!  I haven't been skiing since one time in middle school.  I admit I cried.  I was a very emotional 13-year-old.  I also have a tendency to associate ski lodges with Cory sort of cheating on Topanga with Lauren, so it wasn't my favorite winter activity ever anyway.  (Snow men, of course.)  Regardless, the closer the trip gets, the more excited I am.  I miss snow.  Texas is estranged from snow, at least where we live.

Me in my new warm ski shirt and waterproof pants.  
Ignore the polka-dots.  I was trying these on while wearing other clothes.

Now for the most exciting thing from today.  We went shopping to use some Kohl's cash that expire soon, and I decided to try to find a pair of pants since almost all of my pants are too big.  I have one pair of jeans and one black pair that fit pretty well.  Everything else fits like big sweat pants.  Comfortable, but bulky.

So for the last four years or more, I've had to skip pants shopping at regular stores and go to the "full-figured women" stores that only carry larger sizes.  My jeans that fit best are the smallest size they carry, so I thought maybe I could start looking at size 18 (the largest in most regular stores) to get some cheap pants that fit better, even if they need stretched out a bit before going in public.

So I tried on some 18 pants, and they were baggy.  I tried on 16 pants and they were exactly right in stretchy material, which means they would stretch more with wear.  So I tried on 14, and they were barely too tight.  Just barely.

I bought two pairs of size 14 pants that were on sale, one khaki and one blue.  
Size 14 hasn't been in my vocabulary for years.


So much good going on!  We've also been stocking up on good-quality sweaters for Scotland, I have a growing collection of warm and pretty scarves, and now we have good warm clothes for skiing (and walking on a chilly beach on the North Sea).

Since this blog is more about my life in general and particularly, lately at least, about my journey of weight-loss, I decided to start a new blog.  "That's How We Roll in the Shire" will track our adventures in Aberdeen, both now as we get ready and while we are there.  Please check it out!  I already have a few posts to explain more about Chris's acceptance, the city, and the university.

That's How We Roll in the Shire
http://adventuresinaberdeenshire.blogspot.com/ 


Friday, November 23, 2012

TIme for a Good Clear Out


I decided it's time to have a clear out of my closet and dresser.  On Sunday I was trying to find my black leggings to wear under my dress for church, and while rummaging through my dresser, I found clothes I didn't even remember having!  This is a problem, especially since I just moved a few months ago and redid my whole dresser organization.


That and the fact a lot of clothes no longer fit mean I need to weed down my closet.

So how does one do that?

I'm on the hunt for tips.  I've done it before, but I feel a little extra guidance wouldn't hurt.

This is what I've found:


10 Steps

1. Enlist a friend or sister to help. Even a teenage daughter could help.

2. Put on some energizing music.

3. Have a few boxes or garbage bags handy.

4. Make sure the rest of your room is relatively neat, and make your bed. (it will just make it easier!)

5. Take EVERYTHING out of your closet.

6. Lay it all on your bed.

7. Pull your shoes all out as well and put in a pile over to the side.
NOTE: With everything out of the closet, it is a great time to vacuum REALLY well!

8. Start picking up one item at a time, trying on if needed, and ask yourself these questions:

  • Have I worn this in the past month?          
  • Do I like it? Do I feel good in it? Does it fit me well?
  • Do I have to tug or pull at it the whole time I am wearing it?
  • Is it a seasonal item that needs to be stored elsewhere?
  • If I love it, do I have anything I can wear with it? If not, make a note that you need something to go with your_______________.
  • If you don’t love and you haven’t worn it, get rid of it!
9. Continue ruthlessly through the pile of clothes, asking for your friend’s help as you go. Allow her to be brutally honest about how something looks.
Do the same process with your shoes, and with belts and scarves.

10. After you have weeded down the pile to keep, start hanging items back in your closet (you could do this as you are sorting).

Source: http://thestressedmom.com/2012/01/the-best-way-to-clean-out-your-closet/


Think about the items you have and if they represent who you are now (as well as fit and appropriateness for work/play, etc.) ... Source: http://www.fox11online.com/dpps/entertainment/fashion/wardrobe-march-27-nt12-tvw_4118575


Wardrobe Rehab

Step 1| Cull - Go through all your clothes and sell/swap/throw out/DIY anything that doesn't fit well, make you feel good or suit you.

Step 2| Define Your Style - Look at what you have left over - what styles look good on you and what would you like to change?

Step 3| Gather Essentials - Make a list of essential wardrobe items to be the foundation of your closet, and a (long term) strategy for how you will get these in your wardrobe. These are my essentials.

Step 4| Organise Your Closet - Sort and organise your closet so it's easy to find the things you need.

Step 5| Choose Colour Palette - Decide what colours suit you and stick with neutral colours for basics and essentials - navy, black, white, camel (and if you're like me, red!).

Step 6| Focus Your Shopping - Stick to the list of your required essentials, focusing on quality over quantity.

Source: http://apair-andaspare.blogspot.com/p/wardrobe-rehab.html (The blog links to the specific step details, too.)


Right size but wrong style?  Toss it.  Source: http://penelopesoasis.com/2011/clean-out-closet-how-to-organize-closet.html


These are all great ideas.  So let's get started.


Here is my half of the closet.  It doesn't look like much, but you'd be surprised how much I have actually have crammed in there.

I made the bed to give a clean work space.  
I put out two laundry baskets, one for clothes to keep and one for clothes to donate.
Clothes to toss out ended up on the floor.

I pulled out all of my clothes from the closet and laid them on my bed.  Clothes that I've worn the last few weeks went pretty much directly into the keep pile.  Clothes I hadn't worn in a while, especially since losing weight, I tried on to see how they fit now.

Look at these enormous pants with all that extra fabric.  
They fit perfectly last year.

They do not fit at all anymore. 

They're still in decent shape, so they went straight into the donate pile.

Speaking of the donate pile, this is what I ended up with.  A whole laundry 
basket that toppled over a bit.  It ended up being three bagfuls.

I had also gone through all my dresser drawers checking everything and trying 
on several things.  I ended up with almost 1.5 empty drawers!


My closet looks much neater now (sorry it's sideways), 
and it's organized by clothing type.  
Dresses, skirts, blazers, sweaters, nice shirts, t-shirts, and sleeveless shirts will 
all be much more accessible.

Life is much better with it simplified.  I know I have a long way to go in so many areas, but this was a good start.  And the clothes can be better used by people who need it, so it won't all sit in my closet and dresser with no use.

I'll probably do this again come spring when I've lost more weight and have another bout of wanting to prune everything.

Until then, I'll just enjoy having a bit more space to find what I already own in my wardrobe.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Almost the holidays!

It's becoming more and more obvious that almost half of my clothes no longer fit acceptably enough to wear in public.  Perhaps I'll go on a clearing out spree over Thanksgiving break and create some room for new items.

And by "new" I mean two things: new items perhaps from sales coming up (although I am not going early in the morning at all) and items new to me from thrift stores.  It's been a long time since I've shopped thrift stores, so I'll be a bit rusty, but I might find one or two pairs of pants that can hold me over until the spring when we can pack for Scotland and purchase really good quality clothes good enough for professional work.  For now a predominantly student wardrobe is still somewhat acceptable.

So this is our first Thanksgiving as our little family of two.  We are unable to travel for either major holiday, so we've decided to make the best of it just at home, just the two of us.  We've talked about various family traditions and what we'd like to continue and add to our own version of holidays.  Talking about such things when people get married (or even before) is very important.  Family traditions and expectations are so grounded in our psyche that problems and loyalties can arise and possibly rear an ugly head if they're not handled with consideration.

So this Thursday, we are staying home and getting up early enough for a real breakfast and watching the parade.  Then we will cook the traditional Thanksgiving meal of turkey, potatoes and gravy, corn, green beans, and rolls.  Then we will probably enjoy that meal twice!  Lunch and dinner.  And we will play some game like Munchkin or Big Bang Theory trivia.  (My family always played Bingo on Thanksgiving.)

Thursday evening the tree will go up, warm-scented candles will burn, Christmas carols will be blasting from the speakers, and everything will be covered in tinsel.  The Christmas season may officially begin (finally)!

For Christmas we will get up for presents, biscuits and gravy, and then probably a movie (Chris's family does this every year, and I'm voting for "Les Mis" since it opens that day), then a full dinner of ham and the trimmings.  We will watch Christmas movies like "Muppet Christmas Carol", "Charlie Brown Christmas", and others.

I will also be making homemade cinnamon rolls from my mom's recipe.  I'm going to try them in the next two days, so it will be interesting.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Getting All DIY Up in Here

Just over a year ago, my dear friend Amy introduced me (officially) to Pinterest.  I had resisted it, not sure of what it was but knew it as addictive.

I was so missing out.

After hours collecting recipes and wedding ideas, my now husband was ready to block Pinterest from my laptop.  I found a few recipes, particularly for our new crock pot, which he enjoyed.  However, the wedding projects got a little much for a time.  Still, I was able to come up with some good ideas we used!  (Journals on the tables, a few wedding party poses, the lit arch at the reception...)

Now my searching habits are changing.  I still do recipes.  Gotta eat, right?  But I don't do wedding ideas anymore.  Now I do more craft/DIY and fashion.  The fashion is just for ideas so I have an idea what I want when I go shopping.

The DIY can get dangerous, but since Christmas is coming up, I thought I could try to be smart about it and not get in trouble.

Good news!  I've been smart!

A cheap, fashionable, and EASY accessory for cool weather -- the infinity scarf!

I found a simple tutorial and went fabric shopping.  Chris even went with me and helped pick out some fabric.

This one was a little long (wrapped it 3 times, and I think 2 will be better) and 
I plan to shorten it, but it's pretty cool anyway.  (Pun intended.)

I can't wait until I can wear scarves more often in Scotland!  They'll be almost necessary rather than just an accessory!

Speaking of Scotland, Chris mailed off his PhD application yesterday.  It should be there by Monday, and we should know something probably in January.

My handsome husband grinning funnily just before going to the post office

I've been trying not to get too excited and do tons of research (more than we have already), but it's difficult not to look at apartment options and job opportunities... but it's still so far away!  Anything we find now won't be there come July/August or whenever we'd be moving.

To tide me over until then, here's a photo of the building where he will be attending university.


It's okay to drool.  I do.

Can't wait to make more useful DIY projects we can use in Scotland! (Or at least know of them so I can make them there.  We won't have much room to move very many belongings!)

Saturday, November 10, 2012

A Little Taste of Fall

This is the first Saturday in weeks that I can just do things around the house.

Last night we took out the trash, switched out the dishwasher, wiped down the bathroom, and vacuumed.  It sounds like a lot, but it's really not.

So today is the day to do more.

Like my nails.  I don't do my nails very often, partly because they're usually not very good and I can afford to get them done professionally.  Still, it's almost fall here in Texas (with just a few weeks left of the official season, of course), so I thought it was time to really indulge in the beautiful fall-themed colors out there.

The challenge is that I can't afford really good products either.  Well, by "good" I mean "expensive".  So I do the drugstore thing and get cheap stuff.  Probably another reason my nails don't tend to turn out very well.

Awhile back I found this really pretty fall color at the store down the street.  It's called Foxy.  I really liked that.  It's a bit of purply brown color, but it coordinates so well!

"Foxy" by Revlon

Forgive the messy edges.  They were still drying.

Next step towards fall is getting to wear scarves!  We'll see if that happens....

Monday, October 1, 2012

Hello, Autumn!....?

I never thought I'd miss seasons so much.  But I'm soooo ready for fall.  I want crisp air and changing leaves and hay rides and cookouts where you actually need to be by the fire to keep warm.

We have a few days (or more like hours) here and there that almost feel like fall.  Then the next day it's 90 again.

Anyway, the last couple months have been busy!  Classes, life, and so much else has kept us going.

Amidst all that, I've decided to go back on Weight Watchers.  By spring, I want to be truly healthy.  I've maintained about the same weight since around April, which is good since I wasn't trying very hard after the wedding.  But I've adjusted to seeing myself like I did before, and I don't like what I see.  I know it's a lot better than I was, but I still don't like it.  So veggies, smaller portions, and lots more water are the order.

So, on a very happy note, I visited my friends in Oklahoma this last weekend.  Their little 9-month-old baby is soooo cute.  And she likes me!  I know I'm not ready for kids just yet, but it was a learning experience watching Amy take care of her little one.  Such a good mommy!

This is me holding Emmalynn while she drank her bottle.

Time to get ready for class now.  And get together some recipes and a grocery list.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Nothing Is Constant in Life


Well, almost nothing is constant.  Hence why in the last 2 months we've hit a lot of milestones.

In June we got married.  In July we went on our honeymoon and visited a school in Scotland where Chris wants to get his PhD.  In August  Chris graduated with his master's degree.  Next week I will start my last year for my master's degree.

We had a good time in Scotland.  It's so much cooler than Texas... as in the temperature... we wore jackets every day!  In July and August!

Aberdeen is the "sunniest city in Scotland", which was funny since I read that on a very cloudy day indeed.  Turns out that the city is so far north the summer hardly gets dark at night and the winter sees maybe 5 hours of daylight a day.  Would it be worth it to live there?  Definitely.  I'm tired of the heat.  Texas is not for me.  I'd rather have rain and cold and darkness than all this heat and humidity.

Anyway, here is a photo of Chris and I outside the building where he will (hopefully) be going to school next year.


Pretty.  I kept telling him how jealous I am.  Although, if I end up working in a castle or something, I might win the awesome contest.  (Not that it's a contest, but I'd still win.)

So we're both okay with moving to Scotland for a few years.  He kept asking me if it was okay with me, and I kept saying, "Oh, the sacrifices I make for you."  (I'd move there in a heartbeat.  I even said I didn't need to finish my degree if he wanted to go this year.... he declined.  Apparently he wants me to have my master's before we go.)

Speaking of finishing degrees, he has his!  The family came down for his graduation, which was about 1.5 days after we returned from Scotland.  Talk about a whirlwind!  (I will do a separate post about the dinner we made.  It was delicious!)

I don't have very many photos of his graduation myself yet, but here's one.


Handsome master, isn't he?  So very proud of him.

So, he's done with classes, right?  Wrong!  He's sitting in on two classes this fall.  I think he's crazy.  I mean, I understand his interest in the topics, but good grief he just finished 3 years of classes... actually he's been in school for over 20 years, and now he's going because he feels like it.  Crazy.  Crazy smart and driven, but crazy.

Now I just need to focus on my thesis.... *sigh*

Sunday, July 8, 2012

This Weird Thing Called Marriage

Two weeks and one day ago, I said my vows to my husband.  That's still weird to say.  Husband.  After so many years of wishing and waiting and waiting and more waiting, I can finally call Chris my husband.





Marriage suits me.  I know it doesn't suit everyone.  I know plenty of people who've been happy being single all their lives or at least at this point in their lives.  But marriage suits me very well.

I love having someone to come home to.  Someone to talk to while I fall asleep.  Someone to cook for.  Someone to help with the laundry.  Someone to play video games and card games with (and sometimes beat).  Someone to share my thoughts with that no one else could ever quite understand the way he does.  And he shares with me.

That's one of my favorite parts.  When we sit for hours just talking.  Sometimes about our life goals, sometimes about future children (give us a few years), sometimes about how badly our days went.

There's something about this guy that just makes sense for me to share my life with him.  We really are partners.  I know there will be rough times, I know we'll argue (we're both too stubborn with strong personalities), I know sometimes we'll wonder why we ever got married in the first place.  But the cool part is, I don't think we'll wonder for long.  We'll remember these first few weeks when using titles like husband and wife and falling asleep in each other's arms was not just new but correct.  It's the way life should be.

I know I'm no expert on marriage.  One cannot truly become an expert on anything in two weeks.  Yet I know the greatest thing that a married couple could ever know, ever remember, ever fall back on--love transcends.  Beyond the time of day, beyond the argument, beyond the headaches and hurtful words and impatience.

Now I need to do another load of unending laundry and hang a clock so we're not late for work in the mornings.

Monday, June 11, 2012

Continually Playing Catch Up

It's been almost 2 months since my last post!  Whoops!

Well, in the last 2 months...

I finished my first year of graduate school
Chosen my thesis and gotten it approved
Started 3 summer jobs (one of which is an internship)
Moved to our new apartment
Gotten my wedding dress refitted after losing 20 pounds!

Those are the biggies.

So in a week we will be halfway to my hometown.  In 2 weeks we will be back in Waco, all married.

I've been thinking a lot over the last few months about how I won't be known by my maiden name anymore.  I've always been known by my family (mostly my dad), partly because it's not a terribly common name.  Last I checked, there were only about 800 in the country with that spelling.

I know I'll love my new name.  It sounds nice.  And I'll love being identified with my (soon-to-be) husband.  (He did, however, say that he would let me do whatever I wanted with the name situation--take his, hyphenate, keep mine as is... I've chosen to take his.)

It's just a weird feeling.  After 25 1/2 years of being known a certain way, that's going to change.  Just like it was weird when I started my student teaching over 3 years ago and became known as Ms. Minott instead of Sarah.  I've gotten used to it, and I even like it a lot.  Now I'll be known by another name.  I hope I quickly learn to answer to it!

So, beyond the thinking about names....

We booked our honeymoon to Scotland!  Yes, be jealous, but not necessarily as much as you might be.  We're going also for my thesis research and for Chris to visit a university he's thinking about attending for his PhD.

Either way, though, I'm stoked.  It'll definitely be an adventure!

I'm sure there are other things going on, but with all the wedding tasks I need to do and 3 jobs and being tired, I can't think of any more.

Peace be with you, and we'll see if I can try not to wait another 2 months for a new post.

Friday, April 13, 2012

Sometimes Plateaus Are Bumpy, Too

So the weight loss is slowing now. I've been stuck at 215 for a while. Plateau, it is then.

I'm mostly okay with it, though. I mean, I'm not stopping, but I'm not depressed over it.

Other things have been rough.

A couple weeks ago I was in San Antonio for my first museum conference. I'd been to 4 education conferences ranging from about 50 participants to 1,000. This was a bit on the smaller side with (I think) a couple hundred, but there were still a lot of people, I think. We saw many of the best museums in San Antonio, including the Witte, the McNay, the Alamo, and others.

It was our last night, the evening event at the Witte, when the roughness hit. Earlier that day, my mom told me that my aunt had had a stroke while at work. At that time, she was stable and awake. Then in the midst of enjoying the varied exhibits at the Witte, I discovered a missed call from my mom. My aunt was no longer quite stable and no longer awake. That was Thursday night. But Saturday night, she was gone.

I wasn't particularly close to this aunt, but I worried over my grandma. This was her second child to pass in less than two years. I felt it was very unfair to her. And my aunt was a couple months younger than my mom. That's a scary thought, too.

I was told not to come home by both my grandma and my dad. Part of me was relieved to not have the 14 hour drive each way, but the other part of me wonders how I will get closure. (I wasn't able to go home when my uncle died either.)

So that was rough. And I don't really know how to talk about it. I cried with my friends who were there at the museum with me. I cried while talking with Chris within minutes of talking to my mom. Then I was done. I haven't cried over it since. And I've only told one other person that it even happened. It's weird that Facebook explodes with prayer requests constantly, yet I have not said a word about it. I don't know how. Not really. Even a simple, "Pray for my family, my aunt passed away," seemed inadequate and desperate. So I didn't say anything.

Now, I am. And I suppose it's okay now that it's been a while.

It feels almost like it did when my childhood best friend what hit by that train a few years ago and died within days afterwards. The event is so removed from me geographically, and on some level emotionally, that I'm not quite sure how, or even if I need to, grieve.

I didn't mean to spend all that time on the one family sadness here. I was meaning to do more of a quick list, but that didn't happen.

But now it's time for a fresh cup of coffee so I can do all those little projects while Chris does his homework. Lots of books for my classes, things to do for the wedding, and a bit of reading and planning for my thesis.

I will be productive. I will be productive. I will be productive.

And maybe this plateau will decide to give way up or down.

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Continuing Journey



Almost 2 months ago I was instructed to lose at least 10% of my body weight. That day I started Weight Watchers.

Now I am almost 20 lbs lighter! Still have a few more to reach the 10% goal, but my goal is to be under 200 by my wedding day (3 months minus 1 day!) I have about 16 more lbs to reach that goal. I also want my collar bones to make an appearance again (my favorite part of wearing prom dresses in high school), and they are surfacing a little!

February 7, 2012


March 24, 2012


If you look closely, you can see a bit of shadow from my collar bone!
When I started this, my collar bones were smoothly hidden under fat.

I've noticed an increase in energy (not quite a lot, but still noticeable), better sleep without sleep aids (which I'd taken for over 5 years), and less of a craving for icky foods. In fact, I care much more to know what is in the foods I eat, so I've been making more from scratch.

My tops are fitting a bit better, and my pants are too big! It's still frustrating right now that I don't seem to have actually dropped a pant size, but the pants I have stretch out in an hour of wearing them and are too big to sit where they're supposed to sit!

Chris says he can tell I'm losing weight, and the scale backs that up with numbers, so I'll keep at it. Even after the wedding, I plan to keep with the WW lifestyle until I reach a much healthier weight (like 150 lbs). That means I could lose about 80 lbs before I feel like I can back off a little (just not back off enough to put the weight back on).

I know I won't be able to be "skinny" because of my hereditary big bones, but I can certainly be more healthy in my size and weight.

And I'm on my way there!